Sun Tzu said supreme excellence is breaking the enemy's resistance without fighting. I apply the ancient concept of Shih — strategic positioning — to explain why fighting every battle is draining your life minutes and how nimbleness, not force, is what protects the Project of You.
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फॉर्मूला E के रेस इंजीनियर ग्राहम के साथ एक मज़ेदार और बेबाक बातचीत: मोटरस्पोर्ट इंडस्ट्री में कैसे कदम रखा जाए, उन्होंने अपनी पढ़ाई का रास्ता कैसे चुना, ऑनलाइन रिसर्च के कौन-से चतुर तरीके अपनाए, और KindEdge के इकिगाई-केंद्रित टूल्स को स्वाभाविक रूप से लागू करके एक "असंभव, अव्यावहारिक" ड्रीम करियर कैसे हासिल किया।
read more →A fun, candid conversation with Formula E race engineer, Graham, on breaking into the motorsport industry, navigating his educational path, and leveraging clever online research tools, and naturally applying KindEdge's ikigai-focused tools to achieve an "impossible, impractical” dream career.
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The hardest barriers to break through are the ones you can't even see. In this post, I walk you through a two-part thinking game for making invisible barriers visible — from decoding the spots where you keep getting mysteriously stuck, to the diagnostic table that reveals the real fear underneath every "practical" excuse. Plus a funny family story about a coffee table with a hole in it that my entire family ignored for years.
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Working toward a big goal costs twice the energy of normal life. Here are my 9 practical tips for preserving your stamina so you don't bonk before you reach the summit.
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I had stage three cancer, two 9-hour surgeries, and years of treatment. That wasn't my turning point. My turning point was my puppy. In this post, I explain why we wait too long, what the jokes we make are actually telling us, and how to launch your own turning point today before the breaking point does it for you.
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Hope is like crypto. Action is like rocket fuel. In this post, I explain why the rest-is-still-unwritten mindset can keep you in a warm cozy state of inertia, what the 28-day notebook does that a vision board never can, and how to move from the couch to the desk in one song.
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For twenty years I let chaos makers pull my strings and called it responsibility. The curling mindset changed everything: keep your eyes out in front of you, sweep the path toward what you are actually building, and give the chaos the minimum attention required to untie from it. In this post I share the doughnut vs. hole framework, the Christmas party moment that finally cut my strings, and why a crisis is never a reason to stop building — it is a reason to accelerate.
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Being good at something is not the same as being called to it. In this post, I make the case that competence is one of the most underrated traps in a life well lived, why your energy tank is the most honest signal you have, and what Stephen King and Emily Dickinson have to teach us about not letting aptitude lock you into the wrong life.
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I built the perfect plan on January first. Then real life happened — one task ballooned into a months-long rabbit hole, the gym bag collected dust, and I kept labeling myself a failure for not hitting deadlines I never should have set. In this post, I share why the perfect plan is the problem, how to build a system that actually survives the long game, and why your time crunch is the best diagnostic signal you have.
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I spent twenty years confusing escape with action. A retreat, a spa week, a rah-rah conference all served a purpose, but none of them were the how. In this post, I explain the difference between the what and the how in big life change, why inspiration evaporates on Monday, what the gap assessment actually does, and what the word KindEdge literally means.
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Learn what conscious curation means and why 'un-choosing' the wrong people, habits, and objects is the real first step to pursuing a big life change.
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Most people think chasing a big passion means quitting everything and leaping into financial ruin. It does not. In this post, I explain why your current life is actually the safest and most powerful testing ground for your next one, how to start showing your 359 degrees without blowing up everything you have built, and why building planks beats jumping the abyss every single time.
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The word 'should' is one of the most powerful invisible barriers in the entire KindEdge library, and most people never even see it operating. In this post, I explain where ‘should’ comes from, how it embeds itself into your sense of who you are allowed to be, and why infinite self-kaizen, the practice of running experiments with zero judgment and no attachment to outcome, is the only antidote I have found that actually works.
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I almost let the SEO gods turn my quirky, contrarian, real-life program into blah blah blah just to win clicks. I'm glad I didn't. In this post, I explain why your higher purpose filter is the only tool you need when the world pressures you to conform, and why the funky, out-of-the-box thing you were put here to do is worth every bit of the stand you take for it.
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The perfect plan does not exist. The perfect path does not exist. And chasing either of them will keep you stuck indefinitely. In this post, I explain the mindset I call infinite self-kaizen, why it beats planning every time, and how making it physical through a notebook and totems keeps it working on the hardest days, when your old grooves are trying to pull you back in.
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Years ago I wrote something on my fridge: success is a finite set of choices that live in your daily habits. I still believe it. In this post, I share how I actually stack my day, the morning ambulation walk, the coffee shop environments for different kinds of work, the fasted workout by noon, the five minutes of meditation as a snow globe defrag, and why every piece of it was tested before it was chosen.
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When I hit a barrier between me and a goal, my first instinct used to be to point at it and blame it. What I eventually learned is that the barrier itself is worth pushing on, because more often than not the thing blocking you is inside you, not outside you, and discovering that is the beginning of the real superpower. In this post, I explain how life's tests work and how to win them.
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Your big dream is not as far off as it looks. I spent twenty years testing every guru book and methodology and built a three-phase process that actually works in a busy real life. Phase one: clarity and the vast unchoosing. Phase two: KindEdge 360, the foundation that makes everything else survivable. Phase three: the gap analysis and project plan that closes the distance. Here is the full overview.
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Perfectionism is not a personality flaw. It is a planning addiction that protects you from the messy reality of actually starting. The hack that broke it for me is called time tethering, and it is the fastest way I have ever found to go from stuck in planning mode to genuinely in motion. In this post, I explain exactly how it works and why the action is always the learning.
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I used to lie awake spinning through everything I did not get done. What I eventually realized is that I was not kept up by a to-do list. I was kept up by my own unfinished business, the cravings and desires I had been quietly filling other people's objectives all day instead of giving any oxygen to. In this post, I explain what your insomnia is actually signaling and what to do about it.
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For years I tried to squeeze my real goals into a one-hour Sunday night slot that always got hijacked. Nothing moved. The hack that finally worked was not adding more, it was contracting first: shrinking financial obligations, clearing commitments, making real physical room so the thing that mattered could finally expand into it. In this post, I share exactly how contract to expand works and why waiting for January 1st is never the answer.
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Your body wants to be powerful. Your mind wants to be powerful. Your soul wants to be powerful. And your story wants to be powerful. I explain here why doubling down on the Project of You is the only superpower that actually matters — and how it magically crowds out everything that was draining you.
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Writer's block is not a creativity problem. It is a steam energy problem. In this post, Find out why feeling blocked in any career is a signal from your gut that you are pointed in the wrong direction, and learn how to find the inner drive that never runs dry.
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I spent years waiting for the right time to start the things that mattered most to me. It turns out there is no right time. There is only the attitude that says: hold my beer, watch me do this. In this post, I share why that mindset is the only real starting line, and why leaving your stuff untried is the one mistake you cannot walk back.
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I've spent decades learning that expectations are one of the most powerful levers we have to achieve your goals — but only if you know how to use them. In this post, I share 3 ways to harness your attachment to expectations: as fuel for your biggest ambitions, as a defensive tool against chaos-makers, and as a fire-starter for the big changes you've been avoiding.
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I spent 40 years experimenting with my diet through undiagnosed celiac disease, Hashimoto's thyroiditis, stage three thyroid cancer, and the MTHFR gene mutation — and landed on OMAD carnivore with microgreens. Here's the full story, the why behind it, and why you should never copy someone else's diet.
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The gap between where you are and your big dream feels impossible. Discover why getting your dream in motion is never as complicated as it looks, how Elon Musk proved that even rocket science starts with one dumb first step, and how to daisy chain tiny actions into a completely new life.
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The traditional 1% chase funds without fulfillment. Discover the new 1%: people who skip the wasted decades of blind achievement and start filling their energy bank account today — through purpose-driven work that is embarrassingly fun, bespoke to their wiring, and built to last.
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Hello Friends -Here is a video that gives an easy explanation of KindEdge Step 1 to get you in motion to make your desire...
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Big change starts with a binder, a journal, and 15 minutes a day for 28 days. This is the free KindEdge Step 1 — and it is the most important step in the whole process.
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