Phase Two: KindEdge360 Foundation for Change

What Is the Difference Between Escaping Your Life and Actually Changing It?

I spent twenty years confusing escape with action. A retreat, a spa week, a rah-rah conference all served a purpose, but none of them were the how. In this post, I explain the difference between the what and the how in big life change, why inspiration evaporates on Monday, what the gap assessment actually does, and what the word KindEdge literally means.

I Was Robbed. But They Gained Nothing.

I have had things stolen from me. A diamond. A bracelet. And far more expensive losses in business, in legal battles, in relationships that ended badly. What I know from the inside of all of it is this: the person who robbed you gained almost nothing. And understanding exactly why is one of the most clarifying and freeing ideas I have encountered on this entire journey.

Your Big Dream Is Doable: The Three-Phase KindEdge Process That Takes You From Craving to Living It

Your big dream is not as far off as it looks. I spent twenty years testing every guru book and methodology and built a three-phase process that actually works in a busy real life. Phase one: clarity and the vast unchoosing. Phase two: KindEdge 360, the foundation that makes everything else survivable. Phase three: the gap analysis and project plan that closes the distance. Here is the full overview.

How to 100x Your Chances of Success: Fix Your Broken Priorities and Start Negotiating for Your Life

You've got clarity on your higher purpose. Now comes the real work: fixing broken priorities. This post walks through KindEdge Step 16: how to take the specific actions that move money, time, and energy toward your big life goal, and why negotiating for yourself is the muscle that changes everything.

Conscious Curation clears the path toward big life change

I wrote this post from a hotel in Orlando while two back-to-back hurricanes destroyed my home. Conscious Curation is the KindEdge tool that keeps you moving toward your purpose even when everything falls apart.

A Life Gang Aft Agley - Video Guide for Self-compassion Hacks in Hard Times

I'm sharing a useful self-compassion exercise that can help us in tough times This video is casual and ad hoc as I've...

Heading Home - Will it still be there? Hurricane Homelessness and Championing Chaos

Hi folks -Below I share a moment of thoughts on Friday ask I packed up my wee car and headed home to to St. Petersburg to unwrap...

Welcome to The Pain Cave

Ultramarathon champion Courtney Dauwalter befriends her Pain Cave. I use the same concept for big life change: between you and your greater purpose lies a Pain Cave you must traverse — and here's exactly how.

The Kind Reframe

For years I blamed myself for capsizing a canoe I physically couldn't have tipped. Here's the 3-step Kind Reframe that clears the hidden stories slowing you down.

Why Do Humans Need Totems?

I spent decades trying to change and kept failing — until I discovered that physical totems planted in daily life are what finally keep the wiser mind in charge.