The perfect plan does not exist. The perfect path does not exist. And chasing either of them will keep you stuck indefinitely. In this post, I explain the mindset I call infinite self-kaizen, why it beats planning every time, and how making it physical through a notebook and totems keeps it working on the hardest days, when your old grooves are trying to pull you back in.
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Your big dream is not as far off as it looks. I spent twenty years testing every guru book and methodology and built a three-phase process that actually works in a busy real life. Phase one: clarity and the vast unchoosing. Phase two: KindEdge 360, the foundation that makes everything else survivable. Phase three: the gap analysis and project plan that closes the distance. Here is the full overview.
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I spent years being the useful engine for everyone around me, and I called it strength. It was not strength. It was a cage I built myself out of a very old answer to a very old question: can I depend on you? In this post, I share what toxic self-reliance actually is, where it comes from, and how conscious curation of your network is the only real way out of it.
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You are not broken. You are a funky-shaped puzzle piece in a world that assumes you are a perfect cube. In this post, I share the naked yoga experiment, painting a black dog in an art class, and why Experimentos — trying new things with no predetermined outcome — is the engine of conscious curation and the Project of You.
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Forget guru inspo weekends. In this blog post, I walk you through the actual operating system behind the Project of You: core tenets, Ikigai as a daily filter, the binder life system, infinite self-kaizen, and why protecting time as your only finite resource is the real easy button for your dream career.
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Nobody tells you that a broken ego is why you feel stuck. This pos reframes what a healthy ego actually means, why adults slowly let theirs atrophy, and how regrowing your ego is the first real step toward launching the dream career, project, or life change you've been putting off.
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Stop leaving your unique calling for Sunday night oxygen. Learn how to execute the "vast unchoosing," adopt a death ground mindset, and build your muscle for change with KindEdge.
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As you leap into this Project of You, you will soon discover the importance of fortifying the foundation...
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If you have a thing trapped in your head—a more purposeful way of using your strengths, or an alternate means of expressing your passions--you have an emergency on your hands...
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